So I see this phrase a lot, and I am not only talking about the Tim McGraw song. Sermons, motivational speeches, and various articles talk about living like this was your last day on earth. Now I understand the meaning BEHIND the phrase...to take a chance...to enjoy life more...to buy their product...
But the reality is there is no way we can actually live like we were dying. Because "life" isn't only about what we want. It is about what we and those who love us need. When I sit back and think about all the changes I would make if I were really living like I was dying, we'd be in trouble...
1) I would quit working. Why spend any precious time away from my children if I my time is so short?
2) I would eat my favorite foods, forget that healthy stuff and portion control? Pshaw!
3) I would NOT spend my last days doing laundry...
Obviously, the long term consequences of any of the above would be BAD. But hey, I'm living like I am dying right?
I think the true meaning of "living like you are dying" is not a physical action but a mentality. Even Tim McGraw's music video showed footage of his father, who he reconciled with before his passing. While I hope that my last day on this earth is not full of laundry, I also don't want it to be full of anger, regret, and sadness. I think the phrase more relates to giving up the emotional struggles one is facing to live free from regrets and anger. The ability to forgive and be forgiven. To let go of grudges and anger that have burrowed in and feel more at peace with ourselves and those around us. That doesn't automatically mean sitting back and holding hands singing kumbaya, but peaceful coexistence can go a long way in helping calm the waters of a weary soul.
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